Monday, June 11, 2007

What Do U Do When..

- Someone say her life is miserable?
- Someone say she is fine but u know she is lying?
- Someone dear to u is avoiding u?
- You saw someone close to u is in pain?
- You know ur fren is hiding something from u?
- You like someone, but that person dont like u?
- You are miserable.
- You feel like a loser and the world is against u.
- You are in pain.

I Would..
+ Ask her why is that so.. and just listen..
+ Ask again and assure her that i am here for her.. people lie for a reason.
+ Ask her why and ask for forgiveness even if it isnt my fault.
+ As before. be a good listener.
+ Dont push her to tell. she will when she's ready.
+ Be sad for a while. Suck it up and move on.
+ Be alone and think y.
+ refer above. normally this is only a short term thing.
+ Nothing. Think about it for awhile. then the pain just gradually dissapear.

*i'm this 'species' that dont open up to people easily. frens r for fun. i dont feel like a good thing to burden frens with ur trouble. it's mine to deal with. enuff said, my EGO is high.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Thanks for writing this.